Problems in the
bedroom can turn into deep dissatisfaction. A marital sex problem is like a
warning alarm that danger lies ahead.
Here are 3 ways
sex can kill a marriage:
Too Busy or Too Tired For Sex
This issue frequently happens when
a couple has a demanding job or a busy family life. Not having time for sex can
cause to a problem if it becomes a way of life. Planning date nights is
something commonly advised for couples who don't have enough time for each other.
And scheduling sex tends to preclude spontaneity. Balancing the schedule with spontaneity
might be the best formula for success.
Having
Differing Attitudes About Porn
A lot of people look at porn,
including men and women with healthy sex lives. Porn can become a problem if
one partner doesn't want the other watching it. As with other sexual problems,
porn addiction can cause to an emotional disconnect between a couples. If the
porn becomes an addiction, maybe the partner must get help from a professional.
One
Spouse Controls the Frequency of Sex
While studies show that
married people on average have sex eight times a month, there is no magic
formula that couples can follow to have a happy sex life. The important point
is that both partners have to feel good about how much sex they are having and
how much control they have over their sex life. If one person takes the control
about when and how sex will happens, relationship killers like dissatisfaction,
grudge and anger can come out.